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Chapter XIV

Building a Family

 

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Rivkah Tenenbaum and Mordechai Lustig
on their wedding day

 

Rivkah and I decided to concretize our relationship by establishing a family in spite of Hitler's plans for us. In 1958 we decided to get married and preparations began immediately. Rivkah rented a wedding dress that would have to be adjusted, and we selected invitation cards and ordered them printed. We took pictures on Tel Aviv's long Allenby Street. The wedding was scheduled to take place on February 28, 1958, at a wedding hall along Nachlat Benyamin Street. Relatives prepared and baked cakes and we prepared sandwiches and bought fruit. We invited family, friends from Sandz, from the Palmach, from the army, from my work place and from Rivkah's work place. The wedding went off smoothly and I was very happy to marry and settle down. We went on our honeymoon to Eilat. We then decided to travel to the community of Nahalal where my maternal niece Hannah lived. We spent the night at her place and then left to explore the city of Tiberias and Lake Kinneret. We continued our journey to Kibbutz Dafna where I met Rivkah's family. Esther and Mendel Nachshoni received us as well and we remained two days at the lovely kibbutz. We returned home and started to live the family life.

In April 1958, my uncle, Chaim Lustig from Brazil, and his wife traveled by boat to Israel. They stayed with a family from Sandz in Tel Aviv since our place was very small. The Lustigs brought us very nice gifts and bought a nice refrigerator for us. We visited our friends and had a good time with the Brazilian Lustigs. We really bonded with them.

November 30, 1959, was a very moving day for me and my wife. We gave birth to our first child. I could not believe my eyes. I, the Shoah survivor, had a son. What a wonderful gift to us. A few months prior to this event, I bought a Vespa scooter to give us a bit of mobility. I also made arrangements with a cab driver to be on call when the moment arrived. Soon enough, when Rivkah said that she wanted to go to the hospital, the taxi arrived and took her to the hospital where she gave birth to our first child. On the eighth day, our son was circumcised at the hospital and was given the name of Moshe Lustig. We had a small party at the ceremony. Later in the day, I took a taxi and brought home the entire family. Rivkah from Kibbutz Brenner came to help the new mother. Of course, we had made many preparations for the baby. It was a bit crowded but the joy of having a child offset all difficulties.

I urged Rivkah to stop working and to stay at home to care for the baby. I resumed my flooring work. I bought an attachment to the Vespa so that I could take the baby and my wife for rides in the area or to visit family. I used my Vespa to get to work at Holon and even gave rides to my supervisor, Itzhak Klein.

In 1960, the mass murderer Adolf Eichmann was kidnapped in Argentina and flown to Israel aboard an El Al plane. He faced Israeli judges in Jerusalem where he had to defend himself, for his life was at stake. He faced serious charges of atrocities against the Jewish people. The Israeli police and Justice Department began to prepare the case against Eichmann. Ads appeared everywhere asking people to step forward and give testimony against Eichmann. Witnesses stepped forward who had personally seen his heinous activities. Masses of documents were accumulated and translated into Hebrew for the trial. Extreme precautions had to be installed at the prison to protect the prisoner from

 

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Adolf Eichmann on trial in 1961 in Jerusalem, Israel

 

any harm. When all the preparations were finished, the trial began in Jerusalem. The prosecutor was Gideon Hausner and the defense lawyer was Robert Servatius, a German lawyer. Exception was granted to Eichmann to use a German lawyer who was not a member of the Israeli association of lawyers. Ironically, all judges understood and spoke German; some of them had even practiced law in Germany before they were dismissed from their jobs. The entire country was glued to the televised trial proceedings. The local and international press was in full attendance. The Shoah was presented in full force. Survivors and Jews in general saw for the first time what had taken place in Europe. Eichmann was found guilty and condemned to death. Of course he claimed that he was a mere small clerk but in reality had the power to send trains of people to their death. Eichmann appealed his verdict but the appeal was rejected. He was hung, cremated, and his ashes were scattered outside the territorial waters of the State of Israel.

The trial brought back sad memories of my past. I had a friend from Sandz who worked at the police prison where Eichmann was kept and he told us that all the policeman had to restrain themselves from harming the prisoner. I watched the proceedings and saw my past in front of my eyes. I kept reminding myself that I was there and managed by some chance or miracle to survive. I also found some satisfaction that the man was brought to justice.

Prior to the capture of Eichmann, I had filed the necessary legal papers that were prepared by attorney Appelbaum against the German state. I sued for health damages that occurred to me during the period when I worked for the German authorities. The preparation of the papers took a long time and finally in 1961 I appeared before a medical commission that the German government had established in Israel. The commission established that I had a 40% disability as a result of the forced labor imposed on me during the war years. In 1962, the German government started to pay a monthly payment as well as a retroactive sum for the years past. Rivkah was again expecting and our place was very small. I began to think of expanding our flat by another room. My neighbor Witkowski added a room, a hallway and a balcony. I was thinking of doing the same thing and began implementing the idea of enlarging my apartment. I was short of cash so I took a bank loan and started my project. Work soon stopped since I was called to the reserves. I was now assigned to the armored corps instead of the infantry unit to which I used to belong. I was sent to special courses and had to undergo training. I was then stationed at the Hatzerim military base. My stay did not last long for I was soon transferred to the signal corps that would be my permanent reserve assignment.

On August 17, 1962, Rivkah gave birth to our second child, a daughter. We named her Yehudit. We were very happy with our children. We felt that they were the answer to those who had tried to eliminate us from the face of the earth. The children brought us great joy but we were crowded. I continued to build my extension since I received German reparation money that helped cover the cost of my expansion. I added a room that became the children's room. Rivkah was busy with the children and I devoted myself to the outside of the house. I planted several fruit trees and two Canadian pines. I seeded some grass and fenced in the entire garden. Later, I had to redo the entire garden when the city widened the road and took some of my garden and my pines.

Part of the German compensation consisted of sending me to a health spa each year. Rivkah, the children and I went usually to the Kibbutz Maaleh Hamisha near Jerusalem. I took the family on my Vespa and traveled to the resort. We traveled all over the country with the Vespa and even reached Kibbutz Dafna in the north of Israel. From 1964–1967 I continued to work at a big housing project in Holon. I worked on the basis of piece work. I started to work very early and returned home early. On one occasion I ran into Mordechai Goldfinger from Sandz who lived in London but was visiting Israel. I started to talk to him and mentioned that I had family in London. I mentioned the name of Nathan Lustig with whom I was once in contact. Goldfinger immediately replied that he knew him and gave me his address. I wrote Nathan a letter and he replied. We renewed our mail contacts.

With the tension rising in the Middle East, I was called up for reserve duty and reported to the Hatzerim base. I was assigned to guard the large military base. I was promoted to sergeant of the section and served in this capacity until the end of the Six Day War in 1967. Following the war, my uncle, Chaim Lustig, came to Israel. He stayed with us and we toured the country and saw many Sandzer friends in Israel. He helped me buy a Fiat car and we used the car extensively. We visited Jerusalem, Rehovot, Majdal Shams, and the

 

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Rivkah Lustig, her son Moshe Lustig and Mordechai Lustig celebrating the Bar Mitzvah of Moshe

 

Golan Heights. On our return home, the gear box went near Ramat Gan and we came back home by taxi. The following year, I was called for reserve duty and the entire unit was sent to guard the military base in Rafidim in the Sinai desert. When not on guard duty, I toured the desert and saw the remnants of the Egyptian armor all over the place. I finished the tour of duty and returned home. I began to work on a housing project at Kiriat Bavli in Tel Aviv and later along Bari Street in 1971.

In December 1971, we celebrated the bar mitzvah of our son Moshe at the hall named “Oasis” in Ramat Gan. For us it was a very festive occasion and we invited family and friends. In 1973, my Uncle Chaim arrived from Brazil with his wife Ruth. They stayed with us. Chaim helped me financially to purchase a car that served us well during the family stay in Israel. We traveled and visited many friends and relatives. Then I was called up for reserve duty with the civil defense forces. The Yom Kippur War began and I used my car extensively during the war. I patrolled large areas in Tel Aviv

 

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Mordechai Lustig and son Moshe Lustig in the Israeli armed forces

 

with other reserve soldiers. The following year, Rivkah and I went to Tiberias for our annual vacation paid by the German government.

In 1976, Moshe Lustig was drafted and I was called up for reserve duty. I was in uniform and so was my son. With the end of reserve duty, I started working on a big project in Ramat Aviv that was finished in 1979. I then started to work for the “Azorim” building company that built expensive apartments with different color tiles. The company insisted on high building standards and I had to work very carefully, especially with the ceramics that contained pictures. In 1980, we joined an organized tour of Europe. We landed in Rome, Italy, travelled extensively through the country, entered Switzerland and continued to Paris, France. We continued to Belgium and Holland, then returned to Calais in France where we took the ferry to England and reached London. Nathan Lustig and his wife received us nicely. We stayed with them for three days and enjoyed our stay. We then left for Israel.

 

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From left to right; Mordechai Lustig, Rivkah Lustig and Nathan Lustig

 

In 1981, I was officially informed by the Israeli Ministry of Defense that I was hereby discharged from the reserve forces and from all other military obligations. I was sent an official form that informed me of my termination of military service. I continued to work for Solel Boneh which was building a big and expensive project along King David Street in Tel Aviv. I worked at this project until 1985. Seven months prior to my retirement, I was promoted to foreman in charge of inspecting the finished apartments, especially the tiling of floors and ceramic walls. I had a crew of about 20 workers, mostly Arabs. The apartments were very expensive and some famous people moved in such as attorney Ram Caspi, Rafi Arzi, Professor Gur, Professor Laniado and others.

In March1985, our daughter Yehudit Lustig married her boyfriend Ilan

 

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Yehudit Lustig and Ilan Kaufman on their wedding day

 

Kaufman. We were in ecstasy. Our Lustig family continued to expand despite all the plans to destroy us. The wedding was held in a nice hall with many guests. It was a festive and happy occasion.

Following the marriage of my daughter, I retired from work at the age of 60. I devoted myself to my father–in–law who needed extensive medical help. I also began to develop my old hobbies that I never had time to tend to, namely wood carving, playing the harmonica and the piano. Our first grandchild was born on April 1, 1981. He was named Alon. We catered a very nice affair for the occasion. Several years later, I was in Poland when our daughter gave birth to another grandchild who was named Lital. I had organized a party in Sandz, the place where my family was wiped out, to celebrate the rejuvenation of our family. My daughter's family continued to grow as she gave birth to Sivan June 13,1998. The following year, we celebrated the bar mitzvah of our grandson Alon.

 

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In 1981, I received from the Israeli Defense Ministry a form that informed me that I was hereby discharged from all future military formations

 

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From left to right: Mordechai Lustig, Aviva Kaduri, Moshe Lustig and Rivkah Lustig

 

I was now fully retired and busy with my hobbies. While sitting in the park, I began to talk to a retired electrical worker. We talked about everything and then he told me that he has been several times to the studios of Golan Globus in Nevei Ilan near Jerusalem where he was used in pictures. He asked me if I was interested in working for the movies and, if so, would I come along with him. I replied in the affirmative. We went to the company office in Tel Aviv and registered. The next day, we were already driven by bus to Nevei Ilan. Since that day, I have been called to the studio to appear in movies and advertisements. I participated in many movies and ads starting in 1984. A full list of the movies in which I took part appears in the appendix chapter where there is also a partial list of the famous actors with whom I worked.

I also became a member of the board of the retired Solel Boneh construction workers. I helped with the administrative chores and attended the various executive meetings. I became the chairman of the Sandzer landsmanschaft in Israel where I prepare the annual memorial ceremony for the Jews who were killed in Sandz by the Germans and their helpers. To keep myself physically fit, I joined a swimming pool to do exercises.

In 1989, Rivkah and I joined an organized trip to Poland. My first visit to the old homestead. When the group reached Krakow, we rented a car with a chauffeur who drove us to Sandz. On the way we stopped at the hamlet of Mszane Dolne and in our village of Slomka where my grandfather had lived. The house was gone; according to a neighbor, Franciszek Antusz, the house burned down during the war. The place is still empty. Franciszek remembered me as a child who had spent his summer vacations at the village. The neighbors received us very nicely. I spoke Polish with them. We established and maintain contact to this day. We then headed to Sandz where I visited the cemetery and the memorial for the killed Jews. I did not think, I just stood and cried; tears were flowing. We left Sandz and headed to Krynica, Fibnicza and Ritro where I worked after the liquidation of the Jewish community of Sandz. We continued our trip to Stary Sacz, Roznow where we built the dam on the river, and returned to our hotel in Krakow. I paid the driver 40 American dollars. I took pictures all along the trip. I was sadly disappointed in Sandz by the area of the former Jewish ghetto. Some houses were gone, others were changed. I did not get the feeling of being in the ghetto area.

At last, Moshe met and married Avivva Kaduri. They were married in August 2002. The wedding took place at the “Recital” hall in Ramat Gan. The Israeli television and radio personality Judy Moses photographed the entire wedding and then used parts of it in her television programs dealing with young couples. Of course, we also took our own pictures of the wedding. We were very happy that both of our children were happily married

 

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Rivkah and Mordechai Lustig in Brazil

 

In April 2003, I received an invitation from Luis Lustig, the son of Chaim Lustig, to attend the bar mitzvah of his son Daniel Lustig. He sent us tickets and insisted that everything was paid for and we only had to show up. Rivkah and I flew to Frankfurt and then took a Brazilian plane to Sao Paulo. The plane could not land since there was a heavy fog . We were diverted to Rio de Janeiro where we waited for four hours on the tarmac. Finally, the plane left for San Paulo where Luis and his son were waiting for us. He drove us to our hotel named “Harmonia,” situated along Harmonia Street. Daniel put on tefilim or phylacteries on Friday at the reform synagogue in San Paulo. We missed the opening session due to a heavy fog and arrived late. Saturday afternoon we prayed at the synagogue, the early afternoon and evening prayers, then we lit candles to signify the end of the sabbath. The regal party then started: dancing, singing, beverages were flowing and food was unlimited. The next day, Luis then took us to Rio de Janeiro and we spent three lovely days in the city. I visited a friend from Israel, Ben Zion Katz, who was already in a wheel chair but his family was happy to receive us. In San Paulo I met Hillel Landau and his wife Eva from Sandz.

Luis took us to his farm, about an hour and a half drive from his residence in Sao Paulo. The place is located on top of an elevated plateau. There are two buildings there: one is for the caretaker family. The place grows vegetables, fruit and various trees. The main house has two bedrooms with toilet facilities, a kitchen, a sauna, a rest room and a swimming pool and a piano. In the city of Sao Paulo he has a building where his office is located. He also grows coffee plants. In San Magdelena he has a house where the apartments are rented to residents. The place is guarded. The family also has a summer home facing the sea. There we met his maternal uncle, Samuel Frukesh. Rivkah and I were also invited to a Friday night dinner at Ismael Kalpatz's home. The entire family was there. He has been recently widowed. We visited the cosmetic plant of Neta and Markus Silva. We also met

 

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Rivkah and Mordechai Lustig with their grandchildren Ed and Omri

 

Dvorah, daughter of the late Stabskis from the Palmach. We had a very nice time and spent 25 days in Brazil. We left for Switzerland but had small delays and continued to Israel. Our luggage arrived a day late.

 

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Alon Kaufman drafted into the Israeli army

 

Aviva and Moshe gave birth to their first son Ed, December 20, 2004. He was soon joined by a younger brother, Omri, who was born June 7, 2006.

In between the births of Moshe's sons, our oldest grandchild Alon was drafted in 2005 into the army. Third generation soldier of the State of Israel.

 

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