{"id":667,"date":"2018-09-27T02:40:11","date_gmt":"2018-09-27T02:40:11","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.jewishgen.org\/jewishgen\/testimonials\/?p=667"},"modified":"2019-02-26T20:31:15","modified_gmt":"2019-02-26T20:31:15","slug":"how-i-found-my-fathers-roots","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.jewishgen.org\/jewishgen\/testimonials\/how-i-found-my-fathers-roots\/","title":{"rendered":"How I Found My Father\u2019s Roots"},"content":{"rendered":"<h2>By Douglas L. Sarbach<\/h2>\n<h3><b>Backstory<\/b><\/h3>\n<p>I think it is human nature to want to fill in the missing elements of one\u2019s life space\u2014especially family origins. It was most important to me to search for the origins of my father, Donald Victor Sarbach. I am of an age that early years didn\u2019t include television, but I did devour my parents\u2019 photo albums. From all those black and white photos, I recall vividly our road trips from our home in Ohio to Nebraska and surrounding destinations, homes of relatives of whom I never could understand how they were connected\u2014especially with names like Nanny, Brother, and Mother. We planned our bi-annual road trips to include family members along the way who welcomed us to spend a night of our travels. Before our age of Interstate Highways, a drive from northern Ohio to Lincoln, Nebraska, in August was, in addition to being hot, at least a two-day adventure. As such, I had infrequent interaction with these people\u2014our family. I recall having but four visits with my maternal grandmother, Ida May Boynton, and grandfather, Lowry Charles Wimberly, whom I\u2019ve come to admire and love.<\/p>\n<p>I wondered why we lived so far away from our family. I\u2019m sure Dad\u2019s job opportunity had a lot to do with it. Or maybe not.<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_666\" style=\"width: 159px\" class=\"wp-caption alignright\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.jewishgen.org\/jewishgen\/testimonials\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/Sarbach-Images-PDF-marked-meyerleonsarbach.jpg\"><img aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-666\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"wp-image-666 size-medium\" src=\"https:\/\/www.jewishgen.org\/jewishgen\/testimonials\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/Sarbach-Images-PDF-marked-meyerleonsarbach-149x300.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"149\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.jewishgen.org\/jewishgen\/testimonials\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/Sarbach-Images-PDF-marked-meyerleonsarbach-149x300.jpg 149w, https:\/\/www.jewishgen.org\/jewishgen\/testimonials\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/Sarbach-Images-PDF-marked-meyerleonsarbach-75x150.jpg 75w, https:\/\/www.jewishgen.org\/jewishgen\/testimonials\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/Sarbach-Images-PDF-marked-meyerleonsarbach-768x1545.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.jewishgen.org\/jewishgen\/testimonials\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/Sarbach-Images-PDF-marked-meyerleonsarbach-509x1024.jpg 509w, https:\/\/www.jewishgen.org\/jewishgen\/testimonials\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/Sarbach-Images-PDF-marked-meyerleonsarbach.jpg 984w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 149px) 100vw, 149px\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-666\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Grandfather Meyer Leon Sarbach, c. 1905<\/p><\/div>\n<h3><b>Why I Got Started<\/b><\/h3>\n<p>In my middle years my curiosity got the best of me. Facts started coming to the surface that suggested I go further to figure out just how some of these fading images and memories fit together. Since this curiosity was before the advent of online genealogy, my research methods were derived from necessity. At the time, I was not interested in genealogy per se but simply to discover facts related to my father.<\/p>\n<h3><b>What I Knew<\/b><\/h3>\n<p>Born in Ohio, I was raised Protestant. My two sisters and I were baptized Methodist and, growing up, never wondered why our world was anything else. Later, as an adult, I converted to Catholicism. We are in our 70\u2019s and 80\u2019s now and, of course, our parents have passed. They grew up during the depression in Nebraska and my Dad\u2019s prime professional life as a research chemist was during the Second World War years. Genealogy was of high visibility in Mom\u2019s family. The Daughters of The American Revolution (DAR) credential collections were vast. But there was nothing for my Dad\u2019s side of the family. A few disconnected names were all I had. We did have family Bibles with dutiful notations of names and events. Dad wrote many useful notes and I had letters from paternal uncles outlining family linkages, but nothing regarding religion.<\/p>\n<h3><b>Starts to Become Clear<\/b><\/h3>\n<div id=\"attachment_664\" style=\"width: 310px\" class=\"wp-caption alignright\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.jewishgen.org\/jewishgen\/testimonials\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/Sarbach-Images-PDF-marked-6.jpg\"><img aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-664\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-664\" src=\"https:\/\/www.jewishgen.org\/jewishgen\/testimonials\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/Sarbach-Images-PDF-marked-6-300x240.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"240\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.jewishgen.org\/jewishgen\/testimonials\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/Sarbach-Images-PDF-marked-6-300x240.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.jewishgen.org\/jewishgen\/testimonials\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/Sarbach-Images-PDF-marked-6-150x120.jpg 150w, https:\/\/www.jewishgen.org\/jewishgen\/testimonials\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/Sarbach-Images-PDF-marked-6-768x615.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.jewishgen.org\/jewishgen\/testimonials\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/Sarbach-Images-PDF-marked-6-1024x819.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/www.jewishgen.org\/jewishgen\/testimonials\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/Sarbach-Images-PDF-marked-6.jpg 1427w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-664\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Douglas Sarbach visiting Imsbach, Germany, 2009<\/p><\/div>\n<p>When I learned that Dad\u2019s father, Meyer Leon Sarbach, spent his final days in a Masonic (also Jewish) home in Topeka, Kansas, and was buried in a Jewish cemetery in Leavenworth, Kansas, I began to wonder. I especially wondered why our family was Methodist.<\/p>\n<p>My surname, Sarbach, is not common in the USA. I knew that most of the Sarbachs in this country were either rooted in Switzerland or in southern Germany and not related one to the other\u2014the Swiss were typically Catholic or Protestant and the Germans were not. We did know if we had German or Swiss background. I had learned from my Dad that our surname used to have a double \u201ca \u201c\u2014Saarbach\u2014one of which was dropped shortly after our ancestors arrived in the new land. I then learned that the Sarbachs came to America from Imsbach in Bavaria about 1851.<\/p>\n<h3><b>Research Breakthrough<\/b><\/h3>\n<p>I decided the mystery of my Dad\u2019s heritage had to have a simple answer. Since there were relatively few Sarbachs in the US, I simply wrote all the Sarbachs listed in the online white pages a \u201chard copy\u201d letter. The letter introduced myself and what few family facts\u2014events, names, and relationships\u2014I had. I asked that if they had any corresponding family facts, I would piece them together with mine and follow up with them. I sent in excess of 100 letters with self-addressed stamped envelopes. The kind and thoughtful responses started rolling in. All but one of the responses had no useful information.<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_661\" style=\"width: 206px\" class=\"wp-caption alignright\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.jewishgen.org\/jewishgen\/testimonials\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/Sarbach-Images-PDF-marked-3.jpg\"><img aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-661\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-661\" src=\"https:\/\/www.jewishgen.org\/jewishgen\/testimonials\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/Sarbach-Images-PDF-marked-3-196x300.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"196\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.jewishgen.org\/jewishgen\/testimonials\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/Sarbach-Images-PDF-marked-3-196x300.jpg 196w, https:\/\/www.jewishgen.org\/jewishgen\/testimonials\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/Sarbach-Images-PDF-marked-3-98x150.jpg 98w, https:\/\/www.jewishgen.org\/jewishgen\/testimonials\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/Sarbach-Images-PDF-marked-3-768x1174.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.jewishgen.org\/jewishgen\/testimonials\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/Sarbach-Images-PDF-marked-3-670x1024.jpg 670w, https:\/\/www.jewishgen.org\/jewishgen\/testimonials\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/Sarbach-Images-PDF-marked-3.jpg 1260w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 196px) 100vw, 196px\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-661\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Great-Grandfather Victor Saarbach, c. 1855<\/p><\/div>\n<div id=\"attachment_662\" style=\"width: 206px\" class=\"wp-caption alignleft\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.jewishgen.org\/jewishgen\/testimonials\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/Sarbach-Images-PDF-marked-4.jpg\"><img aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-662\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"wp-image-662 size-medium\" src=\"https:\/\/www.jewishgen.org\/jewishgen\/testimonials\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/Sarbach-Images-PDF-marked-4-196x300.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"196\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.jewishgen.org\/jewishgen\/testimonials\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/Sarbach-Images-PDF-marked-4-196x300.jpg 196w, https:\/\/www.jewishgen.org\/jewishgen\/testimonials\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/Sarbach-Images-PDF-marked-4-98x150.jpg 98w, https:\/\/www.jewishgen.org\/jewishgen\/testimonials\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/Sarbach-Images-PDF-marked-4-768x1178.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.jewishgen.org\/jewishgen\/testimonials\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/Sarbach-Images-PDF-marked-4-667x1024.jpg 667w, https:\/\/www.jewishgen.org\/jewishgen\/testimonials\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/Sarbach-Images-PDF-marked-4.jpg 1241w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 196px) 100vw, 196px\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-662\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Great-Grandmother Rosa Lehman, c. 1855<\/p><\/div>\n<p>The response I received from Jack Honig said \u201cHi Doug, I\u2019m your 2nd cousin and you are Jewish.\u201d He proceeded to fill out my family with names, photos, extended family and a variety of data only he could have known. I now knew that I had a deceased Jewish Grandfather and a number of other Jewish family members only Jack could have known about. Jack\u2019s own story was a blockbuster of intrigue and escape from the Nazi\u2019s in the late 1930s\u2014he lost close family members in the Holocaust\u2014and he was my cousin!! &nbsp;I\u2019ll never forget my friend, Jack and his wife, Molly. I had the honor of sharing Seder with Jack and his family one year.<\/p>\n<p>In 2014 I asked a tour guide in Prague what was the Nazi criteria for being labeled a Jew. He said, \u201c\u2026having one grandparent who was Jewish.\u201d &nbsp;My Dad\u2019s father was Jewish, a child of Jewish German immigrants. Therefore, my sisters and I would have been considered Jewish by the Nazis. So why did my Dad not speak to his Jewishness and why did my Protestant mother go along with the story? Why did no one in Ohio suspect our Jewishness whereas those in Nebraska and Kansas all knew?<\/p>\n<h3><b>Putting it Together<\/b><\/h3>\n<p>Dad was a scientist and Mom, Ruth Lucile Wimberly, was a child of a respected English professor at the University of Nebraska. Both were schooled in higher education. They were informed of world events of the 1930s and 40s. Dad was involved in developing synthetic rubber so that the Japanese could not hold the world hostage for the lack of natural rubber\u2014he succeeded. I believe that Dad and his scientist circle of friends and co-workers feared for the outcome of the War in Germany and the destiny of their children. Dad had a special concern. Indeed, our nation was fighting for its life and I think Dad was protecting his family from possible internment or worse.<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_663\" style=\"width: 224px\" class=\"wp-caption alignright\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.jewishgen.org\/jewishgen\/testimonials\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/Sarbach-Images-PDF-marked-5.jpg\"><img aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-663\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-663\" src=\"https:\/\/www.jewishgen.org\/jewishgen\/testimonials\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/Sarbach-Images-PDF-marked-5-214x300.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"214\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.jewishgen.org\/jewishgen\/testimonials\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/Sarbach-Images-PDF-marked-5-214x300.jpg 214w, https:\/\/www.jewishgen.org\/jewishgen\/testimonials\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/Sarbach-Images-PDF-marked-5-107x150.jpg 107w, https:\/\/www.jewishgen.org\/jewishgen\/testimonials\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/Sarbach-Images-PDF-marked-5-768x1075.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.jewishgen.org\/jewishgen\/testimonials\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/Sarbach-Images-PDF-marked-5-731x1024.jpg 731w, https:\/\/www.jewishgen.org\/jewishgen\/testimonials\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/Sarbach-Images-PDF-marked-5.jpg 1189w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 214px) 100vw, 214px\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-663\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Grave marker of 4th Great-Grandfather Michael Saarbach, 1775-1865; Winnweiler Cemetery, Imsbach, Germany<\/p><\/div>\n<p>An explosion of data followed from Jack, from some of his friends, and from information I gathered through <a href=\"http:\/\/ancestry.com\">Ancestry.com<\/a>. I learned of my Jewish Great-Great Uncles and names I had never heard of before. I learned of hardships which drove all my family to safety elsewhere, and then they returned as mercantilists, civic and political founders, and established their lives in the prairie town of Holton, Kansas Territory. &nbsp;New surnames became connected; Lehman, Friend, Gruenebaum, Mayer, Lazarus, and others. JewishGen was helpful to me in finding others who were researching the same names I was researching.<\/p>\n<h3><b>Conclusion<\/b><\/h3>\n<p>At that time, I had found what I wanted about my father\u2019s family. I went no further with genealogy for many years. Later I returned and now have over 11,000 names on the family tree for my wife\u2019s and my families. It\u2019s all for the children.<\/p>\n<p>I still have many questions.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>September 2018<\/p>\n<p>Clearwater Beach, Florida, USA<\/p>\n<hr>\n<h4 style=\"text-align: center;\"><b>Research Notes and Hints<\/b><\/h4>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 60px;\">In searching for his father\u2019s roots, Douglas sent more than 100 letters via U.S. mail to everyone in the <b>online white pages<\/b> with the surname of Sarbach. One response, from a previously unknown second cousin, was the breakthrough he needed.<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 60px;\"><b>Ancestry.com<\/b> proved helpful in finding vital records and other information.<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 60px;\">Douglas used various resources of <b>JewishGen<\/b> to find others who were researching the same surnames.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u201cWhen I learned that Dad\u2019s father \u2026 was buried in a Jewish cemetery in Leavenworth, Kansas, I began to wonder. 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